learn more with our free usaa retirement guide. call 877-242-usaa. music ... music ... music... >>> supreme court is hearing arguments on a challenge to prop 8, a voteser approved initiative banning same-sex marriage and debate over whether gay couples should be allowed to marry hits close to home for one california family. >> reporter: in california's conservative antelope valley, a fight inside this home 3450mirr the debate in the u.s. supreme court, just far more personal. do you regret how you were before? >> you can don't realize, you know, how far you can go. i didn't know. >> reporter: they cheered the passage of the proposition 8, the state measure that eliminated same-sex marriage. what she didn't know, her shy and withdrawn 13-year-old son was gay. being eaten alive by a sense of shame over his secret. >> the most scary part for me was he trying to kill himself. i remember nights i had to sleep with my eyes open. >> reporter: shortly after cal dal banned same saeks marriage, anthony came out to his family, changing everything for the self described conservativ